Reviews of erotic dating sites
How do erotic dating sites work? Is there a point in going to an erotic dating site? What tricks do erotic dating sites and their users use? Comparison of erotic dating sites.
Test conditions
a man's ad: (paid membership) – profile: looking for a slim girl for a long-term flirt, aged 26-42, 36 years, 182 cm, photo (see at the end of the article) + erotic photo of an athletic figure with a larger erect penis, gradually tried various descriptions of the person in the profile (you have no hobbies, education), 14 days marked as taken and 14 days as single. Approached about 500 profiles on Flirtkontakt and about 250 profiles on Divoké rande. Net time spent: 40-50 hours throughout August 2021
Women: no photo and no activity, unpaid membership (important VIP features are free for girls). Profile: age 31, slim, 160-170cm, married, guy to flirt with. Testing time: 2 days
Summary of erotic dating sites reviews
According to the databases of both dating sites, there are 15 to 20 guys per girl in the 18-42 age group. With increasing age, the ratio even worsens. We estimate that only a maximum of 5% female profiles are real and active. After cleaning up inactive profiles and fake profiles or profiles of prostitutes, they can be the real ratio of women to men on erotic dating sites is 1 in 30 to 1 in 50.
Good opportunity for girls (single or married). Important VIP features for free. Girls with a photo will make a splash on both dating sites. Flirtkontakt is better for girls looking for rich lovers or handsome lovers due to less censorship of paid companions. For girls without a photo or girls with a worse figure, WildDate is better. Even a girl with no photo and no activity has several real contacts within a few minutes.
Ambiguous for the boys. Out of 750 attempts over 14 days and 50 hours of net time, no personal or telephone contact. Only about 1-4 messages with 10 real slim girls. Rejected 3 stronger women and a few prostitutes. If you don't mind a thicker or fatter woman, it is realistic to find a mistress on an erotic dating site. To slim, it is more effective to look outside.
Flirtkontakt is more user-friendly and cheaper than DivokeRande. Flirtkontakt is visited by more attractive people – both women and men – and they also try to provide a better photo. DivokeRande works better for users without a photo or users who are less focused on the appearance and figure of their partner.
Unfair practices of erotic dating sites
Both tested dating sites have an estimated similar number of real users and use various unfair practices.
Deleting an erotic photo does not delete the photo from the database! Just delete the photo and make it unavailable to the public. Deleting an account even after years doesn't delete the account, it just makes the account unavailable to the public! Fundamentally a violation of GDPR and data protection law.
The dating site DivokeRande blatantly and completely misrepresents the resulting ratio of men to women 57% men and 43% women. According to the Divokorande dating site database itself, there are 80 men for every 20 women. After adjusting for inactive and fake profiles. 97% men and 3% women.
Especially on the dating site Flirtkontakt there are many fake robot accounts with AI photos. By 2023, it will be more challenging to spot fake profiles managed by advanced Chat GPT-type AI language models, trained specifically for an erotic dating site. AI images can be recognised by the polish of the characters and the blurriness of the background.
Membership must be cancelled by email, otherwise the membership fee is automatically deducted each month.
Other dating sites:
Tinder is not an erotic dating app and cannot be compared to it in this regard. Don't look for a sex raunchy or erotomaniac on Tinder. www.Amatéři.cz offers advertising functions, but as a dating site it functions more marginally.
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Flirtkontakt.cz (paid membership guys, unpaid membership girls)
This dating site works best with database and search filters, is more user-friendly and efficient, and membership is a bit cheaper than Wild Date.
As a girl without a photo: nothing
As a boy.: Female users in Prague 18-45 years old with photo – database of 3204 women
Estimated max one tenth or less of profiles are active on a monthly basis and some are fake robot profiles -estimate 30% and some are prostitutes estimate 20%. A prostitute is often also identified by a professional or edited photo. For the reported number of female users, I estimate only 5% actual and active women. That means 160 women 18-45 years old with a photo the city of Prague with 1.5 million inhabitants.
With a time commitment of 35 hours, I have interviewed 500 women. We exchanged 1-4 short messages with 7 real slim female users. That was the end of it. But the result was 0. A few offers from hidden prostitutes. About 40 messages from bots.
“The ”farthest” was with a pretty, slim 30-year-old married woman. She wanted someone single and didn’t want to risk a confrontation with a jealous wife.
Benefits
++ paid member can search for a match with filters: region, city, age, with photo, by status (single, single, divorced, etc.). E.g. in Prague there are v4etn2 fale3n7ch profiles; 2995 profiles of girls from 18- 42 years old with photo (30 000 without photo).
+profile the counterpart to show the practices the counterpart likes
+profile of the counterpart will show the age range in which he/she is looking for a partner
+You can write long enough text in your profile
+ you can put a link to yourself in your profile
+ unlimited messages (paying members)
+ For people you friend request, you can see when they were last online
+ membership only 350 CZK for 30 days, free for girls ( 🙂 otherwise it is not possible)
++ Big plus over Tinder – the girls here are mostly pretty and slim
+ about 20% more users than on Wild Date
+ can be searched by nickname
+ mechanism for profile verification (photo of newspaper or photo with specified caption)
Negative
- unfair practices: see summary at the beginning. Also lots of fake profiles and prostitutes. Frequent fake accounts even write you frequent fake robotic messages like the infamous dating site Ashley Madison
– only 2 photos can be uploaded
– some of the support does not speak Czech, they use Google Translate and will give you nonsense answers to more complex questions
DivokeRande.cz (paid membership guys, unpaid membership girls)
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Girl: I used to get real messages on Wild Date even as a girl without a photo with a free VIP membership. About 30 contacts for the first two hours (it makes newbies visible) and about 30 contacts for the next 3 weeks.
Guy: 14 days, net time 15 hours. After the failure on Flirtkontakt, I started taking it faster. Lead 250 women. I received several offers from older, stronger women and 2 from prostitutes. I managed to exchange several messages with about 1-2 real slim users. But the result was 0. For fun: As part of this dating effort, I even had 1 funny phone call - On Friday at 11:30 PM with a jealous friend of the woman who saved my phone number. I introduced myself and he said, "And who is that?" I replied. "Well, I don't know, you're calling..." He hung up the phone.
users – girls in Prague with photo – formal number of profiles
18-25 years 1000 profiles of women
26-35 – girls 860 profiles of women. Ratio of boys (11539) to girls according to database data 13,4 without cleansing and inactive and fake girls.
36-45 years old – 520 female profiles. Ratio of boys (10040) to girls according to database data 19,3 without cleansing and inactive and fake girls.
The dating site DivokeRande blatantly and completely falsely states the resulting male to female ratio as 57% men and 43% women. According to the Divkorande dating site's own database, it is 80 men to 20 women. After adjusting for inactive and fake profiles, this would be 97% men and 3% women. The dating site simply falsely converted 40% men to women after a real calculation to even out the sex ratio. This is deceptive advertising.
Benefits:
+up to 5 photos can be uploaded
++ Big plus over Tinder – the girls here are mostly pretty and slim
+ less prostitutes and fake profiles than on Flirtkontakt
++ You can set a region and city filter and a limited age filter after 10 years, also a filter "with photo", according to status (engaged, single, divorced, etc.)
Neutral: VIP function, who viewed your profile – is basically useless, because you don't know – whether she liked you, doesn't want you, or whether she has reached the limit of 30 likes per day
Disadvantages:
– the profile does not show sexual practices and you can only put about 10 sentences in the profile
— only 30 messages and likes per day (and that's a VIP feature!!)
– more expensive membership 550 per month, plus cancellation required one week before the end of the period
– unlike Flirtkontakt, you cannot search by nickname
– there is no contact with the Swiss owners, they do not respond to emails. A characteristic sign of scammers.
— Unfair and illegal practices – see summary at the beginning. Furthermore, the falsely stated ratio of men to women 57/43 reality 97/3. The claim that every female profile is consistently verified is completely false. Unlike Flirtkontakt, they do not even have a verification mechanism in place. !!!It keeps photos, including erotic ones, even after you have deleted them from your profile. I suspect fake news from fake female profiles. But they don't do it as blatantly as flirtcontact.
– age cannot be changed
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Tinder.com (paid membership)
On the search for a relationship can work. For flirting, if you don't want to lie to your partner and pretend to be interested in a relationship in my opinion useless.
Disadvantages:
– monthly membership 580,-
– a lot of people who don't know what they want
– – about 20% women aged 30 and over shamelessly look 10-15 years younger. It is not uncommon to see a 50-year-old photo on the profile of a 29-year-old. This is not the case on erotic dating sites to such an extent.
– age cannot be changed
Benefits:
+ real users
+ small advantage – automatic renewal of paid membership can be disabled in settings
www.amateurs.coh
This portal primarily functions for the exchange of erotic video-audio content. The dating site is just a supplement and not very hilarious. Here it's basically a classified ad with no filters and almost unusable as a dating site. If you like to watch lots of wankers without faces, this will be your cup of tea :0).
More separate article Amateri.com – Czech Only Fans with low-quality content also functions as a dating site for gays and older couples
www.annonce.cz (erotic services)
For completeness. It is not a dating site, but it is the only one of the databases of paid sexual companions that offers a filter by location and also by the practices offered.
Tips for meeting on an erotic dating site
1. Only approach a partner with a maximum age difference of 5 years. Otherwise they won't want you or you won't understand each other and you are wasting your time and the time of other users.
2. Do not send your photos and videos before personal contact or better not at all.
3. The girls can advertise just fine without a photo (the offers are more desperate, but there are a lot of them, even grandfathers ), but they'll still be in over their heads. Guys without a photo don't even go on a sex site.
4. If you don't mind stronger and older girls, an erotic dating site can be a good place for an easy, non-binding and inexpensive introduction. Otherwise, prepare a bunch of money or look elsewhere. There is no magic solution for guys, but you can increase your luck a little with a normal photo (i.e. not a demented one) and a profile. It is usually not necessary to immediately start talking about sex in the first message. If you don't manage to meet anyone in a month or at least get a cell phone or email and communicate outside the dating site, pack it in. Quite possibly you're just texting with a bot and you'll find better luck in real life.
5. What to fill in your profile about yourself: Definitely information about whether you are looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend or just a flirt and your status (single or engaged). The rest is irrelevant for girls. Guys should write a little about themselves. A lot of girls put emphasis on grammar. I tried (marked as single, looking for a long-term relationship only, nothing more) different things, but the result was always the same – zero meetings and about 1 response for 30 invitations for a drink or dinner.
6. Selfies look stupid, but most dating site users use them for easy discreet taking. When taking a selfie, squint slightly, otherwise your eyes are desperately open to the lens (girls on Tinder especially suffer from this). Ideally, ask a friend. A natural photo (even a selfie) is better than a polished Instragram ad prostitute/photoshop photo.
7. To give an erotic photo or not? Erotic photos are preferred by wilder and more respectable girls. They don't buy a rabbit in a sack. An erotic photo also shows the courage that you want to go all in. A lot of girls are willing to wait and some will even ask about the size of your penis or even make it a condition. But a photo in a swimsuit or elastic clothing is enough. A photo of a girl in any clothing is enough, or just her face or just her figure.
8. If you receive a phone call from a specific person, be discreet. Always ask first with a text message if you can call. For example, “Call me when I can call you.”.
9. Don't write about how some people make you angry and what you don't like. Be positive. Don't play games, don't get attached to others - you're not there for criticism.
10. There are a lot of fake profiles on erotic dating sites. Until 2023, a fake profile could be easily recognized by artificial answers or by checking the origin of the photos of Google or even better Yandex search engines. Since 2023 with language models like Chat GPT. This will be much harder. AI models trained on erotic dating sites will be able to generate erotic pictures of the same (virtual) girl you are texting with thinking she is real. You can recognize AI images by the polish of the characters and the blurriness of the background.
What kind of people are on erotic dating sites
As a guy, I can speak mostly about girls 18-42. I've texted a few of them and thought they were cool. Many from the looks of Agata Hanych type girls who have sex written all over their faces. About 60%-70% girls looking for a relationship (of which 10-15% just want to text and exchange pics, i.e. just a potential relationship or even a pervert for guys).
On erotic dating sites, there are basically only slim and pretty girls up to the age of 40. At least according to profile photos :). Some of the girl profiles are fake profiles, perverts and some are real users, where the less pretty ones do not enter such competition, although they could easily and would have great success. Approximately 10% are girls who are just looking for a flirt, not a relationship. They have even more than a dozen offers and contacts daily.
The girls had nice civilian and most of them had erotic or at least sexy photos. Girls understand the need for a reasonable presentation a little better. Girls on sex dating sites aged 30+ look a bit older in photos than their stated age. Many women artificially lower their age or they are robotic profiles.
So for guys 26-35 years old, you would expect the equivalent to be all shampoos with buns on their bellies. On Flirtkontakt, they were normal guys. On Divokerand, it was normal guys, but desperate guys in large numbers. It was like there was this idea that it was cool to take a picture of a dork in sweatpants or a ball gagged up to his mouth. Most of the guys only have one more photo. You can't tell much from that one.
Basically, it will be normal people – a little prettier, bolder and maybe more relaxed (than normal). They are more into sex than the others. You will also meet a few nice prostitutes there. A few girls said that there are a lot of perverts there. I received about 40 messages in 2 days on the test profile of a woman named Nina and none were perverted. For many girls, even a normal guy who talks about sex in the first message on a sex dating site is a pervert…
