Common vs. extreme sexual practices
A classification of sexual practices ranked from the most common sexual practices to the less common. We will gradually update the sexual practices.
Common sexual practices
Common sexual practices are not shy to ask of a partner under any circumstances and are taken as a social norm.
Masturbation
Stroking erogenous zones and Netting – stroking and stimulating the penis or vagina with the hands
Coitus – classic sex – sexual intercourse
Oral sex – satisfying your partner's penis or vagina with your mouth
Light spanking – light slapping on the ass to strengthen dominance and submissiveness
Sexual role play or simulated wrestling – typically fugitive – hunter, doctor – patient, co-workers, victim and rescuer, plumber. Sexual roles can be balanced (higher) or enhance submissiveness and dominance – typically rape play, policeman or guard – thief, spy – soldier, debtor – debt collector, winner – loser of a wrestling match. This sometimes includes erotic lingerie, sexual costumes or barbaric sexual outfits.
Vibrators on erogenous zones and small dildos inserted into the vagina
Sex chat related masturbation. Sex chat also includes erotic photo exchange. It is always correct to refuse the exchange of erotic photos because of the risk of abuse.
Lightweight BDSM bondage in order to reinforce submissiveness and dominance
Making your own sex videos for your own spectacle. Filming your own sex increases the excitement. Because of the risk of abuse, it is always correct to refuse to film your own sex.
Striptease – it is more of a professional affair and outdoor entertainment. Couples almost never do striptease, or only do it to a limited extent as part of sexual role-playing.
Beyond standard sexual practices or games – often the domain of sex toys
For superior sexual practices, we need a similarly sexually attuned partner. Or to motivate a partner to take extra care in other areas of the relationship (financially, psychologically, emotionally, health-wise). If you provide a partner with a higher standard in their life, don't be afraid to nudge your partner with a request for higher standard sex from time to time. Give and take belongs in a relationship. Although we are brought up to believe that all that is allowed in a relationship is to give and not expect anything in return. Read more How to get a woman for anal sex or Domestic sex like in a porn movie? Illusion or reality?
Small anal pins – tried by up to 30% heterosexual couples
Anal sex – 60% heterosexual couples try it once in their lives, but only 10% heterosexual couples operate it on a weekly basis (How to get a woman for anal sex )
Lightly painful BDSM practices – reprimands, whips, reeds – not for the purpose of inflicting and receiving pain, but to enhance submissiveness and dominance. Ass, vagina, thighs, breasts.
Wearable vibrators with remote control for secret play in society
Foot fetish – caressing with feet or shoes
Light, short-term strangulation during sex – I emphasize light for short-term (a few seconds) – is not dangerous
Vaginal clinic sex – home gynecological examination of the vagina – used vaginal gynaecological mirror
Urinating on your partner's body
Drinking a partner's semen to enhance dominance and submissiveness
Penis cages worn at home or outdoors
Fucking machine (sex machine) as a third-person simulation to a threesome
Dildos a medium sized anal plugs a Enema during anal masturbation (up to 10% for women and 20% for men) or pegging – a woman fucks a man in the ass strap on (regularly 5% pairs).
Russian threesome (two men, one woman), Swedish threesome (2 women, one man), partner swap (Free relationship)
Cuckoo (one of the partners has sex with another person and the other partner watches) - can be escalated, for example, with a penis cage, a ban on touching your own partner, or, to the extreme, an obligation to swallow someone else's semen.
Swingers party (Top Secret Swingers Club Report)
More demanding bondage, positioning and bondage – to that end Safety in BDSM and further Electro sex toys and experience
Vaginal fisting and bigger dildos in the vagina
Urinating into your partner's anus
Extreme sexual practices
For extreme sexual practices you need an equally extreme sexual partner or a huge pile of money. Alternatively, go into the porn business. Extreme sexual practices almost always involve felt or acted disrespect and humiliation of the partner, or at least a dominant and submissive element. This also applies to clinical sex, where the doctor orders it as if for your health. The only exception in some cases is sex with animals.
Extreme sexual fantasies with elements of strong dominance or submissiveness indicate deviance and perhaps even sexual deviance. This does not, however, indicate a person's mental health or self-esteem or his danger to society. Extreme seuxual practices do not make people dangerous to society.
Anal fisting and extreme anal practices – are used big dildos a large anal pins
Extreme shackling, wrapping in foil, etc., leaving outside, pouring wax
Urethral sex – Insertion of objects into the urethra – are used clinic urethral dilators
Face slapping and spitting to reinforce dominance and submissiveness
Swallowing a partner's urine to reinforce dominance and submissiveness
Sex with animals is the greatest extreme for many. However, it is the least harmful extreme sexual practice in terms of health. Domestic sex with animals is practiced for the purpose of simple physical pleasure or at the request of another person for the purpose of humiliation - enhancing submissiveness. In animal porn, the main role is played by the element of humiliation and not by zoophilia. More upcoming article 1.1. 2025 Do animals suffer in animal porn? Is animal porn illegal?
Filling penis, breasts, labia with saline solution
Kicking and boxing in the balls and vagina to strongly reinforce submissiveness and dominance as well as to satisfy sadistic and masochistic desires
Brutal beatings, beatings to blood with whips, floggings, slaps, not to reinforce submissiveness and dominance, but to fulfill sadistic or masochistic desires
Piercing of intimate parts of the body
Shitting on partner and vomiting, in a more extreme variant into partner's sinuses
Stitching the labia of the vagina
